So when it's the love of your life's birthday (and he doesn't love you anymore) the only thing to do is to run away from the city you shared all your happy memories in and find a guy in another. So I did.
Don't think it was random, it wasn't. I've known him for 8 years. And we've hooked up before. So it was the perfect escape, so to speak. Like visiting an old friend. Which, i was.
I've also fallen in love with NYC. The guy notwithstanding, because those are easy enough to find, but I've lived in Philly for about 15 months already and I don't have a single girl friend. Sure sure, I have girls that I see on occasion, but not a girlfriend. I adore going to NYC to stay with Leighann and stay up giggling and gossiping and talking about grad school. I mean, we bought the Broadway Dance game for the Wii this weekend and looked like fools trying to learn the choreography. And i really loved that. Don't get me wrong, I love my roommate, but there are so many gay men in my life. And sometimes, i just need someone else who has a vagina.
Anyway, the guy. We were going a lot of talking between making out, and at one point, he says something to the effect of "well vaginas are just space that wants be filled." And yeah, that does sound like the 'deep dicking' argument from "Chasing Amy" which was TOTALLY offensive, but his comment struck me with a point.
For me, its the ACT of sex that is satisfying. I mean, yeah, orgasms are nice. But i don't consider "good" sex on account of orgasms... its really the doing that is more fun. So is that just the argument that nature abhors a vacuum? IDK. Just thinking...
Don't think it was random, it wasn't. I've known him for 8 years. And we've hooked up before. So it was the perfect escape, so to speak. Like visiting an old friend. Which, i was.
I've also fallen in love with NYC. The guy notwithstanding, because those are easy enough to find, but I've lived in Philly for about 15 months already and I don't have a single girl friend. Sure sure, I have girls that I see on occasion, but not a girlfriend. I adore going to NYC to stay with Leighann and stay up giggling and gossiping and talking about grad school. I mean, we bought the Broadway Dance game for the Wii this weekend and looked like fools trying to learn the choreography. And i really loved that. Don't get me wrong, I love my roommate, but there are so many gay men in my life. And sometimes, i just need someone else who has a vagina.
Anyway, the guy. We were going a lot of talking between making out, and at one point, he says something to the effect of "well vaginas are just space that wants be filled." And yeah, that does sound like the 'deep dicking' argument from "Chasing Amy" which was TOTALLY offensive, but his comment struck me with a point.
For me, its the ACT of sex that is satisfying. I mean, yeah, orgasms are nice. But i don't consider "good" sex on account of orgasms... its really the doing that is more fun. So is that just the argument that nature abhors a vacuum? IDK. Just thinking...
i think i may be jealous